Saturday, January 22, 2011

The moral's in the story, not the stern lecture

We should remember that 'Thou shalt not' might reach the head, but it takes 'Once upon a time' to reach the heart.

We've all heard a great deal recently about the campaign to make children more moral. Apparently, teachers have failed to do so, and politicians and bishops are keen to tell them how to do it properly.
The way to do it, we're informed, is to tell children frequently "Thou shalt not". And to drive the message home, there must be an act of worship every day in schools - those who aren't interested must be preached to by those who don't believe, on behalf of those who want votes.

It's a waste of time. And worse, it's an insult to the intelligence - the moral intelligence, if you like - of thousands and thousands of young people.

True moral education takes place whenever anyone, of whatever age, encounters a story with an open mind. Why else is the Bible full of stories? Why did Aesop tell fables instead of saying "Thou shalt not"? Were the great teachers fools? They taught with the help of stories because stories work.

It's worth taking a few minutes to consider how they work, though, because otherwise we might fall into the danger of assuming a mechanical connection. Hear this, behave like that. Read an approved book, do a comprehension test to show you've understood it, stop bullying. It doesn't work like that.

Stories work secretly, and almost never in ways we can predict. And certainly never for the whole class at once. They work in silence. They work when they're given time, and when they're not harried to death by teachers desperate to get the kids past this test or that. They work when they're left alone. They work when they're not explained, when teachers have the confidence to accept a degree of mystery without flattening out the shadows in a bright neon blaze of explanation. They work when a reader encounters a character whose fate rings true, and when a thrill ofrecognition makes the skin prickle or the heart pound. They work in ways we can't even explain to ourselves.

So recognition is the thing. But that's only part of the reason for the power that stories have. Another important factor is art. Good stories work better than bad ones because they're more interesting, they're put together in clever and original ways, they're richer. There are more kinds of pleasure in them, complicated as well as simple. They're built to last longer.

And they work to teach moral lessons in all kinds of ways. They show that actions have consequences. We read Janni Howker's The Nature of the Beast, for example, and we learn that if you treat people badly, they'll do bad things. Stories show us that you can undermine even heroism's confidence in itself by casting doubt on its motives: read Jill Paton Walsh's Grace. And stories show that feelings aren't cast in bronze; they can modulate. We read Anne Fine's Goggle-Eyes, and we learn that in time, and with care, suspicion can turn into tolerance, and tolerance can turn into affection. What's that, if not a moral lesson?

Stories do many other things too. They astonish, they delight, they horrify, they pass the time, they help us to endure. But one thing they do supremely well is teach. However, they can only do it if they are there.

So my advice to the Archbishop of Canterbury and the Secretary of State for Education would be this. Put aside the lists of moral rights and wrongs. Don't waste your time and our patience with your instructions and injunctions. You could achieve the ends you want (and we all want a moral society) much more effectively by making sure that every school in the country has enough books for all its pupils. Support the schools library service. In some places, resurrect the schools library service. And don't nag teachers into testing everything. We need books, time, and silence.

And we'd all do well to remember that "Thou shalt not" might reach the head, but it takes "Once upon a time" to reach the heart.





Credited to Philip Pullman, who won the Carnegie Medal for his book for children, 'Northern Lights'. The medal is awarded by the Library Association and was first won by Arthur Ransome in 1936.

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40 Extraordinary Things Happening Right Now

Extraordinary Things Happening Now

Right now is a phenomenon.  Right now extraordinary things are happening.
Right now…
  1. A soldier of sorts is diligently fighting the fight so you don’t have to.
  2. Someone who suffered from a severe injury last year is back on their feet.
  3. A small group of people are building something that will soon make the impossible possible.
  4. Somewhere on Earth a double rainbow is stretched from one end of the horizon to the other.
  5. One of the next Billboard-chart-topping musical artists is patiently rehearsing in her garage.
  6. A piece of literature is being written that will eventually change your perspective on life.
  7. Young children all over the world are singing and dancing before they even realize there is anything that isn’t music.
  8. A friend is helping a friend rise above thoughts of suicide.
  9. Someone is thinking what you’re thinking, but hasn’t said anything yet either.
  10. Two people in your hometown are falling in love.
  11. Somewhere someone is admiring a breathtaking sunrise, and somewhere else a surreal sunset.
  12. People of various religious backgrounds are in temples, churches, mosques and other places of worship praying, wholeheartedly, for world peace.
  13. Someone who has struggled with their weight for the last several years is standing on a scale and smiling.
  14. Hundreds of cute elderly couples are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary.
  15. A baby girl just took her first few steps without falling.
  16. Two best friends are laughing so hard they aren’t even making any noise.
  17. A future world leader is in grade school at recess.
  18. Someone is in the process of sincerely forgiving a seemingly unforgivable act.
  19. There’s a kid studying hard somewhere who aspires to get to where you are in life.
  20. A firefighter is running into a burning building to rescue a perfect stranger.
  21. Someone in your vicinity genuinely wants to be your friend.
  22. A young mom is lying in a hospital bed and holding her newborn baby twins for the very first time.
  23. Someone is taking a shower and singing happily at the top of their lungs.
  24. There is someone out there who smiles when they think of a specific moment they once shared with you.
  25. An alcoholic just celebrated one full year of sobriety.
  26. Volunteers in major cities all over the world are working at homeless shelters caring for those who are less fortunate than themselves.
  27. A young man is pulled over on the side of the road helping a young woman change a flat tire.
  28. A high school athlete just broke her own personal record.
  29. Two teenagers just received their very first kiss ever from each other.
  30. A husband and wife who were drowning in debt five years ago proudly hold a balance of zero on their credit cards.
  31. Someone is hugging a friend who desperately needs it.
  32. A new small business owner just wrapped up his first profitable year working for himself.
  33. A grandfather is holding his granddaughter’s hand and they’re both smiling from ear to ear.
  34. Someone just placed their spare change in the charity collection cup at the grocery store.
  35. A small group of friends are sitting around a table sharing funny stories and cheerfully reminiscing about the good old days.
  36. A breast cancer patient just found out her cancer is in complete remission.
  37. Someone out there is missing you and looking forward to your next visit.
  38. Honest people are working for various government entities to help protect your basic human rights and civil liberties.
  39. An emergency room surgeon is in the middle of saving his patient’s life.
  40. Someone is holding the door open for the person behind them.
Right now is a new beginning.  Right now is an opportunity.
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World's most expensive Alcohols

Cognac is usually referred to as one of the most expensive alcohol in the world. Although the habit of cognac can get pretty expensive, there are good affordable cognacs
When it comes to alcohol prices though, cognac isn’t alone in the expensive category. As we were looking around on the web, we came across some alcohols that were priced pretty high. 
It wouldn’t be an overestimate to say that the prices of some of these alcohols almost make us feel like we are living in a shack. When we say some of these alcohol are priced higher than the houses (or mansion if that’s what you have) we live in, hopefully we are saying the truth. 
Please take a moment and check out 5 of the world’s most expensive alcohol of all time.The list starts from the cheapest (among most expensive) to the most expensive of them all.

The $54,000 Rum

The Wray and Nephew Rum that was displayed at Rumfest, Europe’s first Rum festival has been dubbed the most expensive rum of all time. This bottle of rum, made by the Jamaican distillers was one of the four unopened bottles at the time. It was bottled back in 1940. The reason this rum became so rare is because the supply ran out following the then famous Mai Tai cocktail (1934) which used 17 year old Wray and Nephew Rum. The managing director of the Rum Festival at the time said that it was too tempting to leave it unopened. We are not sure if it has been opened yet.most expensive rum ever

The $75,000 Whisky (Whiskey)

Before I write any more on this section I apologize to anyone who might take offense to me using the word “whiskey” instead of “whisky.” It is just a personal preference. Anyway, for a whooping $75,000 dollar The Macallan 1926 Fine and Rare steals the show as the most expensive whiskey of all time, at least at the moment. You certainly won’t be able to find this particular whiskey at your local bar or the liquor store.
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The $225,000 Tequila

The highest amount ever paid for a bottle of tequila is $225,000. The platinum and gold plated bottle of Ultra Premium Tequila Ley .925 was bought at an auction in Mexico city in 2006. The tequila in the gold and platinum plated bottle is triple-distilled mix of 8-, 10- and 12-year-old agave plants and is produced by Hacienda La Capilla Distillery in Los Altos, Jalisco.most expensive tequila ever

The $275,000 Wine

With a price tag of $160,000 1787 Chateau Lafitteis is considered to be the most expensive wine of all time. The bottle originally belonged to the US President, Thomas Jefferson whose initials are etched into the bottle. Thomas Jefferson was an avid wine collector and some lucky (rich) wine collector paid $160,000. Besides the age, Thomas Jefferson’s initials etched into this bottle made it even more of a rare find and is considered to be the most expensive wine ever bought and sold.most expensive wine ever

The $1,060,000 Vodka

When it comes to vodka, the first thing that comes to mind is Russia. Surprisingly, the most expensive vodka comes from the lands of Scotland. The Diva Vodka is the world’s most expensive vodka which almost looks like a perfume bottle. Every bottle of the Diva vodka contains precious and semi-precious stones, including diamonds.The vodka is triple distilled and then passed through a sand of crushed diamonds and other gems.most expensive vodka ever

The $2,000,000 Cognac

Well, seems like cognac which is considered to be one of the most expensive drinks in the world takes the crown. Henri IV Dudognon Heritage which costs around $2,000,000 is the most expensive alcohol in the world. This particular cognac was aged for 100 years in barrels that were air dried for five years before use. The final product is 41% alcohol (82 proof). Besides the content, the bottle itself has quite a few characteristic. The bottle is dipped in 24k gold and sterling platinum and adorned with 6,500 brilliant cut diamonds.most expensive cognac ever